No Dating
It’s no surprise that the Amish only marry people from their culture because they need somebody that will support their religion. It’s difficult to persuade someone to completely change their way of life and habits in order to marry. In the Amish culture, however, there are considerable dating restrictions. It is forbidden to date those who have not been baptized in the Amish faith. You are not allowed to date until you have been approved into the group. Not to mention the fact that only public places are used for dating.
Blessed Engagement
Any major life event in the Amish community requires careful consideration and includes the entire community. People cannot simply get engaged and marry without the authorization of others. Once a couple starts dating, it doesn’t take long for them to get engaged. When the man proposes, he and his fiancee must seek permission from the church. After the church has blessed them, they are allowed to marry.